I used to let my cat sleep with me, but once I adopted another one and we moved into a new apartment. I decided it would be best to just let the cats have the living room because I knew they would be competing on who gets the rooms/closets. Plus I was worried the newer cat would pee in here, possibly.
Anyways, we just kind of stuck with not letting them sleep in here at night, just in the day. I feel kind of bad sometimes because they love being close to us, but it saves me from having allergies as bad. Plus, one of my cats gets SUPER cocky so my hubby and I have to check her sometimes.
It's funny because my husband is a Leo.... so we call him "top cat," and the cats know that he's dominant. They will try to take advantage of me ALL DAY, but when he's around; they back off. Kind of cracks me up.
She used to do the whole "come at me, bro" movements with my man when we first started living together, it was hilarious. I wish I would have video taped it. Such a dorky cat. hahahaha