keeping a relationship through college...(a bit of a rant)

I'm so sorry Manda. He could just be stressed stating school in itself, on top of the actual hours of everything. And sometimes young guys in serious relationship, after spending allot of time with their gf, realize there are other things they still want to do too, and feel bad saying that they'd rather play capture the flag, or whatever it may be, that day, which then leads to slightly immature handling of the situation. And it can be hard for some people to learn how to balance "us" with "me", if that makes sense. That's what it kinda sounds like to me anyways. And I swear I'm nor speaking from personal experience, lol.