okay, i had some extra time on my hands so i redid both enclosures to bare basics to possibly catch some poo when they go for a fecal. i did find a vet, but they are off for the whole summer, go figure -.- i left a message though and i hope they get back to me soon...the female did eat 2 superworms, they disappeared from her enclosure, no poo though. and the male did eat one or two from his enclosure as well, but no new poo...i have pictures of the old stuff while it was fresh if anyone wants them :p soaked the male for about ten minutes while i was doing his cage, he kinda enjoyed it, lol. and i showed the female her new laying box, but hasnt gone in it on her own.