Personality of a tarantula owner

Hi. I was just thinking about spiders and got a shiver all over. I guess you could say I have arachnophobia. I asked myself, "Doesn't everyone?" Who are these people that can actually cuddle with a tarantula, and feel all warm and fuzzy. (No pun intended) I know that there are people that see such beauty in them, and I understand that they can, but I am curious. What kind of personality do you think these "seers of beauty" have? What experiences have they had that brought them to the point of loving them without cringing? What is the beauty of spiders?

If you love spiders, I hope you will help me with my curiosity.