(09-07-2013, 12:03 PM)Happyflowerlady Wrote: Glitter, I actually think that adopting an older dog is an excellent choice in your circumstance. Trying to take care of both a puppy and a baby is enough to try the patience of a saint ! At least this way, the dog should already be house trained, and not bouncing all over everything, and doing all the energetic things that a puppy would constantly be up to. Puppy's mean well, but they " just want to have fun" as the song goes, and it would be easy for a puppy to crash in to a toddler and hurt them.
An older dog will be a lot more settled. The main thing is to get one that is sociable with children, and small enough to live in an apartment, as well as large enough to be a good guard dog. Also, a dog with short hair is better than a long haired dog, since you will have a young one grabbing ahold of the dogs hair if it is long. I think you will be happy with your dog once you find the right one, so good luck with this !
This is an excellent response and I thank you from the bottom of my heart for it! This just makes me want a dog even more now! I feel that puppies are even harder to raise than babies (in my own experience) and I am just not willing to take on the added responsibility of a puppy. I know it sounds irresponsible, but I feel that it would be TRULY irresponsible to actually get a puppy and have to sometimes ignore it in order to care for my baby. I've had a bad experience with a puppy while I was pregnant. We ended up having to re-home her to a very loving couple (I got lucky there).
Good advice on the short hair! I never thought of that. Looks like I have some searching to do for the perfect dog. Thank you so much for all the tips! I'm excited now! Can't wait!