Your dog sounds identical to my dog's behavior problems. My dogs are now outside full time and not aloud in the house. I love them to bits, but they are destroying my home left and right. There is only so much you can do before you lose your mind. I struggle to train my dogs because they will not take to anything I say. From what I understand, this means that they do not see me as an authoritative figure at all. I would suggest going to a professional dog trainer and have them come examine your dog's behavior. They will be able to help you place your dog in the correct classes or even give you the best tips to help your dog effectively.
